Looks like I'm going to be a single mom I know this is going to be hard but I would rather do this on my own than continue to be with someone who can't be trusted. This seems to be a cycle with the women in my family, I thought I would be the first to break it.😔
smh it's better you found out now as opposed to later. do what you have to do for you and your child because they're all that matters. they will look up to you and follow in your footsteps, so be the best example you can be for them. at least that's what I choose to do. I call my baby my little generational curse breaker because I plan to lead by example for her so that when her time comes, she will be in a better situation than me. I want her to know that raising children on your own is not normal and not the way its supposed to be
I really needed to hear that @helpedbytmh I just feel like he really let me down I thought he was going to be different everyone in my family thought he was the good guy turns out he had a few skeletons in his closet
it's a curse in my family (single motherhood) and I wanted to be the one to break it as well, but didn't. just remember everything happens for a reason and children deserve to grow up in the best situation possible whether that's with both parents or one. stay strong, God never puts more on us than we can bare
@mssjudyk I tried my best to hold on to this and make things work but he's living a lifestyle that I can't be apart of
be strong momma... I'm here rocking in a similar boat
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
*but certain choices that I made put me in the situation of raising her alone. I'm going to be completely honest with her and pray that she makes better decisions