I always get told I have a cold heart. I cut people off without hesitation. I've been allied mean…

I always get told I have a cold heart. I cut people off without hesitation. I've been allied mean and insensitive but the way I look at it... If you're an adult allowing shit to go on in your life that you don't want then it's your fault.... If you sit and complain and blame other people for your life being how it is but don't try to do anything to change it then that's your fault! I'm not going to be around people who find excuses instead of making their life what they want it to be. You're comfortable in your shithole then stay there but I ain't visiting you.