You know how hard it is to love a man my family doesn't hate him but hates that he isn't putting in…
You know how hard it is to love a man my family doesn't hate him but hates that he isn't putting in any effort or support his job gives him no hours but at least he works then again he continues to say that he doesn't make enough for bills then spends it on weed and cigs I try to talk to him about it but we argue my mother thinks I should kick him out cause I can't raise a man and a baby but I get so lonely I have no license and I just love him not the shit he does but him personally he cooks for me cleans for me I can tell he really loves his daughter though he hasn't bought anything for her yet and she's to be born in less than a month and a half he keeps telling me to wait for him to go to the military but he can't stop smoking weed to save his life and lies about it in conflicted his daughter needs her daddy but I will be damned if I go broke raising them both seriously I went through almost 15 thousand dollars of my college funds cause he didn't have the money for rent car note light bill or phone bill those are the only bills we have to make when this lease is over I'm sure my credit and his will be good thanks to me and I don't get a thanks I get cussed out on the regular when I even sound like I'm criticizing him I wanna be on section 8 where I'd only have to spend a minimum but I don't wanna live in the ghetto so I guess I'll have to move into a cheaper apartment with ir without him but if with him I'll just have to move back in with my mom ..... And work from there
Trezelle·
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You may love him but it doesn't sound like he understands the concept of love. Sorry you're dealing with that. I agree with your mom 100% not being mean just being truthful.
Kayla Williams·
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Your right and im not saying my mother is wrong at all it's just hard so hard to let him go cause I really wanted us to be a family 😔 @trezelle
Krista·
A real man doesn't treat a woman that way. I'm sure you and your baby deserve much better.
Trezelle·
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Girl life don't always pen out the way we wanted to. Right now you have a child you need to think about. If he cannot be an adult then there's no reason to have him around. I know it's hard but you have to think about your child. Feeling lonely is tough but you shouldn't have to deal with all his shit just to say you have a male to lay next to at night. Whose to know you break up with him work on you and then find some amazing guy later on. You can do this momma!
Kayla Williams·
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He's not gonna make it easy for me you know when you have a baby your stuck with that man for 18 years your reminded constantly about how you can't move away from the man unless it's approved by the courts @trezelle
Trezelle·
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You can do anything you want to do love. You just have to be strong enough. If what he is doing is bothering you and you want better for your life then leave or make him leave. Y'all having a kid together doesn't mean yall have to be in a relationship. I won't ever say to keep a kid from his/her father but you have to do better for you!
Kayla Williams·
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I want him to do better for his family which is me and Amiyah she's going to be here maybe that's it a woman realizes that shit is real when the baby is in the womb but a man realizes it when the baby is in his arms @trezelle
Trezelle·
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Girl you can't make anyone do anything. It's your life though you know what you can and cannot handle. Can't tell you what to do.
Trezelle·
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I've never been in your situation mama. I'm talking from an outsiders point of view. At this point all I can do is say a pray for you. Life is so hard already I just hope he gets better.
ann_kzz·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
i went through this. i had to support my man and i didn't have a job i pawned and spent everything i had to pay the bills. then finally when i had nothing he left me 8 months pregnant for some other girl that has a job and can pay her bills. plus he smokes weed all the time it was impossible to make him do anything better with his life. it may only get worse when the baby is here and you'll have to stress about him and the baby. i hope everything works out. but id rather be alone with my baby than with a man who makes you feel alone.