so I'm a mom of a 7 and 3 year old had the first when I was 16 .long story short I'm having a baby…
so I'm a mom of a 7 and 3 year old had the first when I was 16 .long story short I'm having a baby with their stepdad this is his first child and he just came in from getting n dropping his friend off from work I guess they were talking for an hour or so and he said when the baby gets here he doesn't want them to feel neglected because they have always been there for him so he doesn't want them to think he's changed I told him 1 you have changed your becoming a father and they should understand that (what I meant was that they should know baby comes first and most your time will be with family or at least baby) he said I didn't expect you to understand anyways. 😑😒😈 wait UP HOLD A MINUTE HUNNY....WHAT!? ARE YOU FOR REAL!? I know exactly what its like i had a child at 16 real friends understand fake ones don't they shouldn't mind you becoming a parent and should understand why you can't always hangout which the thing is he never really hung out with them till we moved to the same city as them anyways!? hes letting them get in his head telling him he's going to change and won't have time for them well no shit sherlock daddy duty calls first!!! I understand they are all very close but he's stressing out about something that is something to me isn't that serious at all he's over thinking it whether he wants to admit it or not a child will change you in some ways there are some things you will have to change or give up yes by all means go out with the boys everynow and then but geesh why are you acting depressed about it when you Barley see them just because your at work all the time your 26 your a adult now doing adult things watch when we get engaged they will say hes gunna be locked down... he's a very good man to me and my kids and I never have doubts of him hurting us at all and very happy with him as he is us but if he ever thinks he's going to leave me with baby all the time and go out he's wrong...its not a bad change in life it really isnt once baby is here I think he will laugh about it lol idk annoys me because its not that serious at least not to me then again if my friends couldn't understand I wouldn't care ....but that's me I still love him😊
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He needs to find new friends hun that's all I can say ! He should be focusing on the baby instead of thinking about making time for "friends" . I'm sorry that you have to deal with something this annoying 😡
Andrea·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (14 нед.)
I totally understand because my man is a step father to my kids and we are having his 1st child too. 1 of his friends is getting into his head😒 but you'll see once that baby comes and sees you deliver that baby things will change. It's a part of growing up! That friends thing will grow out of him😌
Amy·
my husband went through the same thing, I know his friends would talk smack about me behind both our backs and they would totally make it obvious on Facebook how much they dislike me, but I didn't care because I told him that things will change when the baby come because she was and is first priority. He wasn't going to have time to go out with his friends every weekend like he use to especially right now because my baby girl is in PICU/NICU. So his friends threw a little hissy fit. and his cousins as well. his cousins are the party drinking type of people. I told him. sorry, I know they're your cousins, they're family. but the baby and I come first now. His cousins try making me feel like crap saying that I have him whipped, saying I don't let him go out and what not. and I went off on them pretty bad, but to make it short. he just needed time and a few slaps here and there to make him realize that having a baby is a pretty big deal and can't be going out on what latinos know as "Paranda" (means wild party). Just be patient, if he truly cares, he'll get over it regardless.
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It's why I told my fiancé to plan something's with his friend before the baby comes. He said he can also plan things when the baby is here as well. I said yea. But it's my first child so I really don't know how busy she gonna have me or us. I don't even have friends in Wilmington, nc. They are all like 3 hours away. I only text them or Skype. Your husbands friends are being rude tho. They shouldn't care if he changes. They should support him just like my finance friends do. They know what happens when you become a dad. And if your husband is busy it doesn't hurt them to come see him. They are jerks to me I see.