does anybody know anything about custody? the father of my 2 oldest kids broke up 2years ago and when we were together we went to court agreed on joint custody sense we lived together now that we obviously don't I'm with somebody else and having another child I was wondering where does that leave us for custody? we never made a set schedule in court at all I am primary parent because they live with me,he was supposed to tell the courts if he were to move out and never did... where does this leave the custody can I get in trouble for keeping them with me as he has been mean and has threatened to physically harm me or have others? I'm not keeping them to be mean he doesn't use carseat properly he will throw it in the car and strap the my three year old in he drives drunk and think because he does good its fine,he won't pay child support when asked to because it will destroy him not through court and is just flat out mean and disrespectful and I don't want my sons turning out like him their step dad is a very good role model and teaches them respect and manner unlike their dad there's so much more but to much to write any advice I do plan on maybe taking him to court after I'm back and school and working so he can't try to make me look bad and my dad has been helping financially with them sense they were born they are 3-7....