Ive been so supportive of my man for almost 11 years now, but I think all that support Ive given him…
Ive been so supportive of my man for almost 11 years now, but I think all that support Ive given him has allowed him to walk all over me and do the things he's done to hurt me. We have 3 children with another on the way. It's so hard to go day by day not seeing him. He currently works two jobs to keep enough money(as he states, even though his one job is more than enough). He's always been a hard worker and money hungry person no matter how much he has. I'm to the point in this pregnancy I want to give up. Being put on bed rest has really taken a toll on me and my family. Since he isn't really around my "bed rest" isn't fully in force cause I have no one to care for my kids besides me! It's so hard and I want to tell him either he needs to leave one of his jobs or he is going to lose his family. I hate having to give him ultimatum's but its so hard and I can't continue for the next 4 months like this. Do I sound like a bad person and not being supportive if I tell him he needs to make the choice? I want to show him that I'm there for him, but why is it so hard for him to realize I need him here as well.
missing3user·
Мама четверых детей
No you need help and if you know you guys can make it with him having one job the tell him how you feel !!!
Victoria·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It's just so hard to voice my opinion to him. Sometimes IDK if he is even listening. He actually had an affair about a year and a half ago and they had a child, so I know he is always worried about providing everything for all his children, but damn! Sometimes I wonder if because she went through her pregnancy alone then he thinks I'll be fine with mine too. With our other three children he was incredible. He did everything and was always there. I also didn't have all these problems. I think I'm going to say something to him, just need to find he right time. Since I barely see him, it'll be whenever he's here. Don't want to do it over the phone or text.
Victoria·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@proud_mommyof4,
missvargas·
I don't think that makes you a bad person. My husband is the same .He likes making money he's in construction and was always taking on side jobs on top of his full time job M-Sat and then working on the weekends . Finally after 10 years of it I told him no more side jobs.no he only works half a day on Saturdays and never works on Sundays .it's not much but it's better than what it was before
missing3user·
Мама четверых детей
Wow an affair sorry you went through that I couldn't keep on with my husband if he did that to me having a child by someone else is a no !!! But yes I agree you need to talk to him asap
Diana·
You need to look after your babies and see what's best for them. Tell him he needs to be there for you and your babies if he really wants what's best for them. Yes money Is important but I'd rather be poor than live without my husband and kids all together happily. Don't push him to just quit. Just put that in his head, he needs to settle his priorities and realize over working does not help a family.
~~~~~{TEAM ♡ JAYCE}~~~~~·
Мама подростка, беременна (28 нед.)
I saw this and it made me think of you!