@mrsmoore, sometimes it's best to just be brutally honest. let her know what's up and that you know she's lying.

@babyhawkins2015, I feel bad as well but its just silly,I wouldn't want to watch 4 kids and a newborn no and drive all that way she better suck it up I have two sons and I don't get naps but hey that's being a parent that's pregnant nap when daddy's home,your a good friend for taking that drive

@mrsmoore, I just don't get people sometimes.. I feel bad for even talking behind her back..but Geez... come on... she NEVER travelled to my side of town my entire pregnancy so far... I had to go visit her...and I had a horrible first trimester....in addition to nausea, my psychiatrist took me off my anxiety and anti depressant pills...I was going through withdrawal symptoms and wasn't supposed to be driving...but I still drove an hour to visit her!! Then right after she finds out she is pregnant, she tells me, "you should come watch my little ones so I can take a nap"... WTF? I replied, "if I came to see you, your kids would be watching themselves..I'm pregnant and tired as well!!! SMH.... Trust me, I won't be helping her with her 4 kids when I will have a newborn myself.

@babyhawkins2015, I have a friend who swore she had a good man and had a baby just because me and my man have a good relationship she's pregnant and he left her so I'm pregnant an still happy together its not always a good idea to copy,as for my friend that is lying she even said I know this is your shower so I'm only telling you so I won't say anything to anybody else because this is your day to shine,I don't get people a d as for your friend why would you help when she planned it lol

@mrsmoore, - sounds like she is just an atrention seeker. I hate to day it but my best friend's just like that. She has a step dtr age 13, another dtr, age 5 & a son, age 4. She can barely keep her little ones under control and would complain to me all the time...as soon as I found out I was pregnant, she said she wanted another one...and deliberately went off her birth control (she told me she did on purpose and didn't tell her husband). During my first few weeks after finding out I was pregnant, she kept saying, "I think I am pregnant" EVERY WEEK..then in the same breathe tells my fiance and I, "what am I gonna do if I have another one??? You guys need to help me if I am pregnant" um... she purposefully went off her pill and didn't tell her husband. Now she is 9 weeks pregnant..it's all about how she is stressed having kids and being pregnant and how I should go visit her...an hour drive!! Excuse me, but I am tired as hell too. Then I tell her yesterday my sister's are going to help throw my baby shower together..her response, "cool".. PERIOD.. nothing else. So again, my point is, some women just crave attention. I bet that was annoying at your shower. which I know is going to happen mine with my best friend...ugh

@meganeileen6, lmao really a toilet seat though!? 😂and yea I doubt you catch somebody who really went through that at a party lol just crazy haha

yeah an ectopic pregnancy is very serious..so i think shes lying. a girl i went to high school with was the same way..said she got pregnant from sitting on a toilet seat...and then another time she found out she was pregnant supposedly about 4 months and just took 2 plan b pills & bled out overnight, cleaned up & was at a party the next day. bitches be cray!

@ak16 I never had one before,but I just think it's wrong for her to lie like that your right its not right to those who can't have a child or have gone through that

@natnatbabygirl, I'm going to say to her not to be mean but how is that possible my dad is a doctor and I asked him about it he's never heard such thing,nobody gavr her attention she wanted out of it

@mrsmoore, some people just crave the attention. they see someone who's pregnant getting all these oohs and ahhs and questions and they want the spot light. the point is she should stress you out with it! tell her to be honest or be on her way.

@natnatbabygirl, oh wow that's just silly idk why people do that she has been trying to get pregnant sense I was trying I'm now 9 months and idk I don't mean to be mean but I never believe it she always has the weirdest bizarre way of how or why she lost it I don't think a life is something to make up and lie about

Thank you, sorry for yours as well, it sucks and you have to have emergency surgery so unless she wants to explain how she hasn't had internal bleeding she needs to stop lying it's not right for people that can't have children and/or people that have exactly had it happen it's not a game

OK yea she says she has then but never bleeds or even really knows nor does she say anything about pain she just says it like oh yea i had a miscarriage which she has had maybe one or two but this one along with a few others I'm not believing as she said it all casual,and I'm sorry for your loss 😞 @ak16

it doesn't sound realistic, and most likely she's lying. she's seeking attention, I knew a girl who would say she was pregnant until like 4 months and say she miscarried she did it several times in a row, once she said it was cause her boyfriend hit in the stomach with a lamp, a friggin lamp! another time she said she lost it and flushed it down the toilet. conveniently she lost the baby any time she was about to start showing, that and I was hanging at her house and started talking to her mom and her mom was pissed at her when I asked her about it said she was lying out her ass.

Having an ectopic your tube can bust, but trust me you would know because I had that with my one year old (they were twins) and it was worse than labor i was in tears and it took an ambulance to get me to the hospital and I passed out my heart rate dropped bad while they tried to figure out what it was. So I doubt she had that