I don't know where else to go with this (and I know there are those of you out there that have gone through or are going…

I feel the same exact way, how do we prevent it if it's not our fault

@blackprincess149, I would blame myself, I'm not gonna lie. they'd have to put me away. I'd be a sad vegetable. I wouldn't get out of bed.

I would just say don't dwell on the negative ideas that something could happen. It is more likely that you will have a happy, healthy baby with next to no risks to have anything bad happen. I suppose it's a good idea knowing that there's a small chance things go badly, but for every sad, unfortunate story there's thousands of good, happy ones. Stressing yourself out will stress the baby out. Enjoy the last few weeks of pregnancy as best as you can. Good luck momma!

I felt the same way my hole pregnancy I was scared that I was going to lose my baby I'd go day by day think and hoping my next appointment would hurry and come to tell me that my baby was doing just fine.. sadly there is nothing we can do to prevent sids and things like that they say to help side is lay them on there backs till old enought to know how to turn there head for air but try not to stress over it bc it is a freak thing that does happen tho

@kimberlyyyy, @ekks.mamma thanks ladies.

any time hun :)

I feel the same way . This is my 4th pregnancy but I'm scared of losing Micah . I look forward to his lil kicks . One time i I did not feel him moving as much and I freaked out and went to the hospital . He was there moving away . He started flexing his lil leg on the ultrasound machine . 😌

i was the same way. it scared the hell out of me. every time I caught myself thinking about it I'd force myself to go to the kitchen to cut up fruit for a snack. it would help distract me and after a few minutes the thoughts would leave.

@elenaj, sometimes it's hard for me to feel him move and I go lay on my side and drink iced water and he moves. @_akgirl pregnancy I'd just a scary thing.

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if it helps there are monitors that measure babys breath or movements and if none of thos happen it sounds an alarm

@yummycake, where do they sell that?

amazon has them for 75 sound and motion monitors

i want one with camera but money is kinda the deal with me. but i want to use it for my son. to check if he isnt having a seizure cus he is in his own room. seven year old.

@yummycake, I'm gonna check it out. I hope things get better. Positive vibes to you!

I did the same thing. I was even scared of losing her in every trimester. I had to look it up how likely it was to lose a baby in your 2nd and 3rd tri. And I would read the articles every day for a week straight. I was terrified of losing her. I'm still scared that I'll deliver her and not hear her sweet cry. But I try to stay positive about it all because if I don't I'll make myself crazy thinking of all the what ifs

@santistevanmommie, I mean I'm worried about that but also after when I bring him home. I feel like I'm gonna be a vampire and never sleep.

I've come to except that for at least the first week I'll spend most of my time awake staring at her in her bassinet. SIDS scares the crap out of me and being a FTM I feel that fear is intensified! I couldn't imagine losing a baby at any time even in the first tri or when they're grown

@santistevanmommie, same