💔So hurt & so pissed off... 💔 some people in my fiances family think he needs a paternity... like I'm some kinda whore!…

wow that's shitty! :-/ sorry you are going through this !

@ftm-jess, I said let's get one then so I can show all these people. I have absolutely nothing to hide I know who the father of my baby is! I looked up the paternity test you can get before the baby is born & I wish we could afford the $1000 to do it just to prove to them but at the same time Why should I have to prove it to them. I already know & my man already knows too!!!!

@ftm-jess, Also his brothers like to invite him to do couple stuff with them & their girl friends but make it clear I'm not invited by saying things like there is only room for 5 people and my fiance would be the 5th person.... 😭

@bsummers, that's crazy me and my fiance was together for 3yrs b4 our son was born and his family started saying that's not your baby I was like are you serious this guy was living with me and driving my car how the hell can I cheat? Girl I was like whatever do it if you want to we won't survive

As long as he knows and doesn't believe his family's nonsense you shouldn't get one. you guys are with eachother , screw what the family thinks! I'm with my SO for 6 years as well , and 2 days ago his aunt called the police on me for something I haven't done , so I totally get how you feel! his mother and I have never had a good relationship, when I first moved here I asked her if she wanted to get coffee someday so we could get to know eachother other. she said nah thanks I'd rather not deal with the bullshit. just brush it off as best as you can. at the end they are just hurting themselves!

oh wow... tell them to get a life and stop trying to screw up yours. they bored, don't have nothing better to do but be bullies. get them a coloring book with crayons. Don't let that stuff get to you mama

My finances family is the same way but yet my fiancé dosent want one

My cousin is dealing with the same thing right now! I'd curse all their asses out!

There's always going to be people who think that way in families, some will openly say it and others won't. Just ignore it and laugh it off. Don't spend money on something if you already know the answer. My SO friend on Facebook (a guy who he used to go to school with for awhile) started talking to him again and my SO told him he's having a baby and the guy said you're having a baby? Is it yours? Just like that.. My SO hasn't replied or talked to him since.

Ha,, mine does too. I just ignore it. I'm not going to waste my time and money getting a test when I know who my child's father is. If they don't approve or believe you, then screw them. Not worth the stress.

my fiancé's family wanted one too smh we didn't get one and when my son was born they saw that he looked just like him and it all stopped

If his family wants him to get one let them pay for it. I'm in a similar situation and I'll be damn if I put any money out on something I already know the answer to!