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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
(sorry if this is tmi) Hey ladies... literally so fed up... Sex has been so painful since being pregnant. Even early on I struggled but now it's just unbearable. I get really turned on and really want it... but even oral or just playing is uncomfortable... sex itself is like I'm being stabbed in the vajay then it is just so sore. I hate it. Feel like iv tried EVERYTHING! We have tried different positions, more lube, more foreplay, less foreplay, doing it more or waiting weeks, with and without condoms... nothing seems to help 😥 my fiancé is so patient with me but I am so fed up with it now! Has anyone else had this problem or have any suggestions that may help? and if anyone had experienced this, does it go away once the baby is born?
12.07.2015
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
thank you @bee1979 I have only just seen your comment! silly phone! I mentioned it to her and she didn't really say much to be honest, just said keep trying and see if it gets better... it hasn't :( still sore! but I think your right and it may just be swelling, I don't have thrush so no real reason for it :( it's something to look forward to after the baby though I suppose :P xx
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bee1979
bee1979
I've been getting sore from sex as well.
It's on and off.
Think it is quite normal as everything swells up down there.
definitely mention it to midwife.
If it starts to burn and itch probably thrush which is easily treated.
I'm going to get some cream this week.
my partner is understanding but he gets upset because I'm sore and thinks it's him.
But keep telling him it's not.
Hope all goes well hun.xxx
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oweatherby
oweatherby
@lovingourlittles, you are welcome! I hope your midwife will help you sort it out) I am sure that it's temporary issue and don't get too upset darling) worse when due to hormone changes woman don't want sex at all and partners get really disappointed, what affects relationships, but in your situation you both want it and both understanding und supportive, what is great) xx
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
thank you @oweatherby I will talk to my midwife xx
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oweatherby
oweatherby
I had this problem and reason was thrush.. I had canested pessarry and cream and in few days everything was sorted)) xxx
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
the only way it doesn't hurt with me, is from behind with my legs really wide apart @laa286 it's still horribly uncomfortable but not painful... Oh no @kathryn-elizabeth 😞 o feel for you ladies ot really isn't nice... I hope it goes away for all of us eventually x
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kathryn-elizabeth
kathryn-elizabeth
I've still got that pain while having sex but I had my son 4 weeks ago so i would have thought it would have been gone by now
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11375
11375
the only way that is slightly tolerable is from the side, its not painful hust uncomfortable and i kjow your frustration. sometimes i darent let him touch me incase it all goes wrong then i feel bad! xx
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
thank you ☺ hope someone can suggest something @essex-angel xx
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essex-angel
essex-angel
i havent experienced this (yet) but i know a few of the girls on here have. Hopefully they can help ☺ xx
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
Bless you hun, I'm going to mention it at my next appointment as it's not too far away, I don't feel pain or itching or anything though and my results for blood tests and pee tests come back fine, we will see... @tori27
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
its horrible isn't it @laa286 😞 I got so mad this morning when we tried... x
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lovingourlittles
lovingourlittles
No but I want to, I have been getting twice as sexually frustrated, probably due to the hormones... and my partner loves my pregnancy body and wants to make the most of it while I'm still pregnant... I'm just fed up 😥 wish it didn't hurt @tori27
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11375
11375
i feel same 😕 it gets me down. this is my 4th and was never like this with others. i hopenit goes after baby cuz it is so uncomfortable 😕x
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tori27
tori27
Is sex really relevant lol, do u have to do it lol
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