Guys, I'm so scared and hurt... After dating/talking to this guy for a while and being sexually…

Some men are pathetic... Don't listen to him, if you do in fact want this baby he's going to have to deal with it. It wasn't just you, it takes two. If he doesn't want to be involved that's sad but take him to court, all that financial responsibility can't be on you.

@ftmbabyboy11, you're right. I guess I'm just hurt. But I'm totally against abortions. And he says "you just wanna have a baby by me" when that's not the case. I'm just not gonna kill something innocent

@misskittypurrs__, I'm sorry you're going through that, hopefully he will turn around by the time your baby is born so your child can have a father in their life, but you can do it on your own, at times it may not be easy but it is do-able. But if he doesn't change his tune and still insists he wants nothing to do with anything, definitely take him to court... I've heard so many women agreeing to sign away the guys rights and the guys don't end up paying or helping with anything, so they end up getting exactly what they want and go on to do this to someone else.

@lp1988727, I haven't told my family yet. I'm too scared. I'm the baby in the family like on the The 21st of this month I'll just be turning 21

@lp1988727, oh my. They'll be very angry. I don't think I'll add that part on until later

This is totally your choice. I, personally, believe in pro-choice, but if you don't then that's okay too! 😊 Screw him for being that way. Like someone said before me, it takes too. Yeah you weren't that careful, but neither was he! Take his ass to court if you can't do it financially on your own, or if you can, than make sure his name isn't on the birth certificate and he has zero rights. Plenty of women do this also, and you can too! You just have to be strong. ❤️ I believe in you!.

It takes two *****

@jennatess, 😕😌😏 thanks

I'm 21 granted I'm married but I wasn't when I got pregnant. I have to say now that he is here he is the best thing to happen to me and I think once you tell your family you would be surprised as to how they react. I would definitely tell them before you make that big decision. If you would keep the baby if you had support then I would for sure tell your family first and see what they say

@lp1988727, will do love. Thanks for your help and concern.

@edomke, will do

At the end of the day you have to do what is right for you. If you can't financially handle it and he won't help and you think it's your best option then you should do it. Listen to your gut. Good luck I hope it all works out for you.

At the end of the day you have to do what is right for you. If you can't financially handle it and he won't help and you think it's your best option then you should do it. Listen to your gut. Good luck I hope it all works out for you.

I was in similar spot but I decided to keep the baby it's your choice in the end but you can give that baby a good life regardless of the father just stay strong it's not easy but feeling the baby kick and move reassured me this was the right choice

@kysonsmommy2015, yeah that's what I'm hoping I believe I'm doing the right thing. And god knows my heart he won't allow me to struggle and if I do it's nothing I can't overcome.

Exactly I say the same thing he has a reason for everything nothing isn't out of his control you can do it im here if you need someone to talk to I am in the same boat just a little further into it :) keep your head up and pray

Talk things out with your family see what they think, the decision is ultimately yours! Don't let that asshole get to you. You deserve better than that anyways. His karma will come to him ☺️ don't make any decisions based off where you stand with him.