So I'm so emotionally unstable right now it's ridiculous. I'm thinking about canceling my shower and…

I'm sorry your feeling that way, don't cancel the baby shower we all experience pregnancy hormones give it sometime maybe things will change

@faybaby89, and I really just think it's hormones but I'm stressed because why do I have to throw my shower? My husband and I want to have this nice event but we will be out of so much money and I feel like no one will show up because most of our guest are coming from out of town. And we just have so much to do with little time. I feel like the baby will be here soon! I have school in August and I start coaching in October. Then the holidays after that. I will be so busy and I have just a little of my summer to relax but I can't because I'm stressing over this stupid shower.

14 weeks? You have plenty of time girl. Sleep on it a few months and then decide.

@mommyslittleman, ideally I do. But with school starting and basketball season starting then it limits my time. I don't want to be worried about my shower during my season, etc. I want to get it all out the way. It's bad enough I get the "why did u get pregnant now" questions from my players, parents and coworkers.

there nothing wrong with planning your own baby shower me and my sister are planning mines, it can be stressful but don't let it stress you baby showers are meant to be fun you can still have a nice baby shower with out going over budget you just have to plan ahead and its ok if its small invite everybody and then if only some people come then its ok you have to plan this shower on what works best for you not other people

@faybaby89, thanks for the kind words

your welcome anytime