How Bad of a Mother Am I for Feeling Sad About Having a Boy?
how fucking bad of a mother can I be. I get so sad and upset that I'm having a boy, even though I love him. I do. I was just really set on having a girl. I wanted to have mommy's little princess. the last 3 babies in the family were boys, (my side and the bfs side) and 4 of my friends found out they're all having girls. I do not love my son any less. but for some reason I just imagined if I ever had to be a single mother, I would feel more needed, more heroic I guess if it was my daughter. how fucked up do I sound??? shouldn't I just be happy??
Jennifer Nguyen·
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I heard some moms react this way when they first find out. Give it time. It doesn't make you a bad mom.
Temesha·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
i mean i had the same reaction when i had my girls and if i had the same results now i would be devastated..but i guess you will move past it
bella🌻·
I don't think it makes u a bad mom at all. We are all emotional beings. In the beg of my pregn I was convinced I was having a boy and I convinced myself to be happy about it bc I didn't think I was having a girl. I'm not going to lie I was so depressed some days bc I wanted a girl so badly and I kept having these dreams of a boy baby. I had this happen to a friend of mine too. Throughout the pregnancy you'll connect with ur baby little by little and once u have that baby in ur arms u will be in love. Just give it time and don't be too hard on urself.
michelle·
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my oldest is a boy and I wouldnt change it for the world. boys definitely hold their moms as the most precious person in the world to them plus if you have another child in future and it's a girl he's will be her protecter and you will never have to worry if you're not around. things happen for a reason and once he is born of won't matter because you will never know you could love someone that much
Taylor·
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I've always wanted a girl. I have a feeling it's a boy. My boyfriend says I'm going to be super disappointed if it is a boy. I won't love him any less. I've just always wanted a girl so I know how you feel
missing115user·
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its really common to be disappointed about your baby's gender. You get your heart set on wanting a certain gender and it can probably be pretty upsetting to not get what you're hoping for