Well today I couldn't handle being treated the way my mom treats me. Like I'm always doing something…
Well today I couldn't handle being treated the way my mom treats me. Like I'm always doing something wrong and always a burden to have around even if I'm just trying to sit with her. I just couldn't take it so I called her out. I wanted to know why she treats me this way. Well she completely denied treating me poorly or different than my other siblings but then she went on this rant about how it's hard to have a daughter who is smarter than her and she doesn't know how to deal with me knowing more than her.
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I don't really know how to react. I mean it's a compliment I guess but I don't view myself as smarter than my mom and it kinda bums me out because I feel like if that's really her problem I'll never have a normal decent relationship with her. I just don't know how to proceed or why even if she feels I'm smarter it means I have to be treated negatively
cyniece·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
just pray for her.... I haven't spoke to my mom in over 2years because she's the same and feels the same sad to say that a mother can feel that way about her child, I pray I never do but all you can do is pray for her and let the lord handle it
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I know where you are coming from. I'm adopted and I always hated when my mom would tell us how athletic she in high school and how she never worried about boys and had better priorities. She would also never want to shop with us girls or was into helping us with dances or prom. Well just last Christmas when we were talking she admitted she was always jealous of my sister's and I because of our beauty that came so naturally. She said that no matter what she does she will never be and never has been as beautiful as us. I was really drawn back when she told me this. I had no clue she felt like that and I thought that was so petty of her to feel like that because even though we are adopted she should be so happy to have beautiful children and not feel jealous over it... I mean she is a great mother and I love her to death but it's the little things like that, that really take you by surprise!
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
Thank you for the support. It just really bums me out. I want to have a relationship with my mom so bad but now that know why she's always treating me like that I don't know if it's ever possible @whitney @cp
cyniece·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I always tried so hard to have one with my mom as well but add the years went by I see she wasn't going to change so after 15 years I just decided I needed to be happy and not just for myself but also for my kids, because it was inferring with the relationship I'm trying to build with my kids so 2 years ago I said I'm done...... so still love her and do your part because she is your mother but also remember you need to be happy as well