this was from 20 min wearing carrier. and he had pants on. I should probably quit using to right??

Or you can make some alterations to it. Maybe widen the leg part and add cushion to it.

how widen it ??

Switch to a wrap, im not a fan of "crotch danglers" kids get hip problems from bjorn like baby carriers google it girl 😓 you're smart for asking us!

he won't do a wrap :( @rookiemom

have you tried a ring sling? those are really awesome. I can still carry my 1yr old in mine :)