Okay this is gonna be kinda long but i gotta say it all. Every day I'm reminded how absolutely lucky…

Okay this is gonna be kinda long but i gotta say it all.

Every day I'm reminded how absolutely lucky I am to have my fiance (I call him hubby but just for clarity he is my fiance) I mean I know I stress a lot and I get extra paranoid but when I can calm down I know that unfortunately that's just my anxiety. I have been so blessed that after all that's happened in my life I was able to get a man like him.

I'm not sure when it happened exactly but I feel like the definition of a man has changed. To me a man is someone like my father. Someone who works hard to support his family. Someone who knows the value of his children. Someone who knows the value of his woman and knows the value of himself. A man is someone with integrity. Someone who does is best no matter what. A man has respect for his woman and that comes with viewing her as an equal and treating her that way. Men step uo to the plate they have been served. Im not sure when or how it happened but societies accepted definition of a man is nothing like that now. Seems like people base whose a man off of how many women a guy can bed down or how many chick's he gets pregnant. Doesn't matter if he gives a care in the world about any of them tho. The concept of a real man has just been thrown out the window. Ladies we deserve better. We deserve really men. Not these lil boys who think they're men.