How do you tell your SO that you don't want your kids around his ppl without causing a whole big uproar? Me and my daughter stayed in the hospital a total of 87 days. My stay 35 days then her NICU stay 52 days and none of his family called, text, sent a card/flowers or came to see us. When his mom showed up with him after staying in my house FREE she played so sick n sleepy stayed a hour and left. So I came to. the conclusion you couldn't take time out ur day to come see us we not f*****g with y'all. Plus when my son goes over her house she always call and say he being Manish but it never happens at home I'm lost!!!