i cant stand my husband, always when we fight it always has to end by him saying "your family cant…
i cant stand my husband, always when we fight it always has to end by him saying "your family cant whoop me , not your dad , not your uncle , not your cousins , nobody and you can tell them that too " im getting real tired of him talking shit about my family like if its okay and thinking hes tough , and yes i tried to say everything he says to me back to him vise versa he just seems not to care , i just wanna say something to him while we're fighting that will break him so he can learn to keep his mouth shut , i wanna get him sooo freaking good that'll seem like a big slap in his face
Cassandre·
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do you really think that'll make it all better or worse. I can tell both of you guys are frustrated about something so maybe sooner family counseling might help out to diffuse the underlying frustrations y'all are having
irisedith·
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@ce5ce, hes a person that he doesnt think before talks and he put it to his head that i supposably said that my family doesnt like him WHICH I DID NOT say that and he goes overboard with it and i try to tell him to process the things i say to him before he makes false accusations but he only sees things his way with him you have to be tough because hes gonna keep thinking that everything he does and say is okay he thinks he's untouchable and he says he doesn't care about anything and i want to break him out of that but 4 years dealing with it it's exhausting
Bria·
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Oh my god why would you want to hurt his feelings? You two need to separate.
Cassandre·
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it sounds exhausting. I would get to the root of the problem, before throwing low blows, that's YOUR man. sounds like he needs... SOMETHING. I have no idea what, only you do but the whole tough guy thing is definitely a facade
irisedith·
Мама дочки-младенца
@bria.k, so he can learn and realize that all the bad things he said to mee over he years hurt because he just doesnt care about anything but himself and his own feelings @ce5ce we barely fight we are always joking around laughing we have a good relationship better than most couples i know who are actually married but when we get into arguments they are the worst , i just want him to realize and think things through before saying rude and hurtful stuff because most of the time when we fight he says something stupid that has nothing to do with anything and he feels like he has to defend himself
Cassandre·
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awwww that's terrible. Also sounds like me and my mister... except when we have a disagreement he refuses to talk until he's in a better mood. It drives me bonkers 😡😡