rant!!when someone who was due around the same time you are and a family member...she recently had a…
rant!!when someone who was due around the same time you are and a family member...she recently had a miscarriage and im still pregnant and blames me for her miscarriage and i stressed her out. no i didnt. i knew for 2 months before i told the family and i still havent posted on facebook. my phone is being blown up by family to make sure im okay. im blocked by this person. anyone else who's pregnant have others accuse them of something bad happening when your not even at fault. im work and crying
Shawna Santistevan·
Don't get too upset mama. She's just going through a rough time and is taking it out on you. You know you didn't do anything to cause her miscarriage that happens for unknown reasons.
mickbaby·
Aw I'm sorry she's taking it out on you but I agree with @santistevanmommie She just lost her child and is probably going through so many emotions. She'll come around. It's impossible that you could be at fault, it just unfortunately didn't work out for her 😔 Keep your head up and send her some good vibes even if you blocked her.
mickbaby·
Oo sorry she blocked you, I misread. I'm sure she'll come around, just give it time.
Ashley·
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this has been an on going battle for a year now. there is no way of fixing it now. i would never wish harm on anyone. if she comes around maybe but i appreciate the advice. staying calm is all i can do. @mickbaby @santistevanmommie
Bria·
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That's really sad that she's blaming it on you. I had a mc on Valentine's Day and it's so so hard to deal with!! She's just upset because you get to have your baby. I was mad at every pregnant person in the world too. I cried when I saw pregnant women. My best friend found out she was pregnant with her COUSINS baby for Gods sake, and she had the nerve to tell me about it and complain and say " help! I'm pregnant :(" not even a week after I lost my baby. But I didn't blame anybody. I knew logically and rationally that baby wasn't developing properly, and my body did what it had to do. She had no reason to blame you at all, but if that's how she's gonna grieve, you just have to let it happen no matter how wrong she is. Nothing will change the way her brain reacts to trauma.
Ashley·
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Im sorry for your loss. I had a scare at the beginning hence why i didnt tell anyone. then i was cleared and let my family know. i know its not easy just dont understand her logic. i cant be in her shoes but some of the names and things she was posted were not right. i get people blame when they are griefing but she is now stressing me out. which im trying to stay calm and put it behind me. just sad situation. @bria.k