TMI- My daughter is going on 3month on the 15th and since ive had her ive been having extreme pains in my stomach and after my six weeks i had quarter sized dark blood like almost black, plus super sharp pinching in my vagina which is atil going off an on..? Help??

Had to go get a cherry cream slush with extra whipped cream, ive been craving it since yesterday!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?

If my girls had been boys, my oldest was going to be Malachi and my youngest daughter was going to be Salem or Kailand had she been a boy. (Kai for short)
going to the hospital tomorrow
For an IV. I can't keep anything down and my midwife wants me to go in. Has anyone had to do this? Did it make you feel better?