I realize when you really need a friend they aren't there for you.. My "bf" haven't text me since…

I realize when you really need a friend they aren't there for you.. My "bf" haven't text me since Thursday, I been in the hospital since Friday.. Txt take long to send and calls sometimes drop but I made sure I posted on Facebook what was going on... She have yet to inbox me (using Wi-Fi since services suck up here) asking im I okay but she made sure to ask was I still coming to her shower on the 11... I told her Thursday I didn't kno & now that I got the news I got yesterday I definitely won't be attending the shower...