literally so torn... after not speaking for almost 2 months, he calls at 2:30 a.m. to say he's sorry…
literally so torn...
after not speaking for almost 2 months, he calls at 2:30 a.m. to say he's sorry and he knows he hurt me for goin MIA and that he was just scared and thinking. and that he knows now that he wants to be a family and be there for his daughter and me. that he loves me and let's move in together, bc he's gonna be there.
....but Idk if I can go thru that agian. am I wrong for being 250% scared to give it a chance? am I wrong for not trusting him.... bc I feel wrong.
my heart is breaking so bad and I can't stop crying 😭😭
Mmmirage·
Мама сына-младенца
Don't cry! Be strong for your baby. She feels what U do. You're not wrong at all for being scared. He put U in that situation in the first place. Just do what's best for your princess
missing380user·
my heart tells me one thing, and my mind says a whole different thing 😢 I really don't know what to do... thank you tho @mmmirage
Mmmirage·
Мама сына-младенца
I know how U feel.. My husband did it to me but guess what. He broke up with me soon right after my baby was born lol yes "broke up" even tho we were married. I had to stop following my heart and followed my mind. Im at peace now. No more pain and soneone disappearing
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
always trust your gut. I know it's hard believe me I'm going through it right now too. it's not easy . it's definitely hard but , if you know deep down inside something not right. then it's not. your heart is always going to be the one that says take him back because you love him . but , other then that it's ultimately up to you. because only you know him well. do what you think is right . don't take him back out of pity either . I cry every night because of this man. but deep down I know it's over . he isn't ready to be an actual family. let him show you more then tell you. don't reach out to him let him do that . @uhoh2015
Emily·
В ожидании первенца
I'm not sure how old you are but if you guys are younger I can see where he would freak out. Yes he's a douche for it but I would see if he could come around for the sake of your daughter but I would not move in with him quite yet. Have him prove himself to you and baby
Cassandre·
В ожидании первенца
nope not wrong. make him prove it. don't allow him to waltz in and out of yalls lives like that. don't move in with him until you know both of y'all are ready. pregnancy is stressful enough. give him a chance but don't make it easy on him
missing380user·
thank you! @ce5ce @edomke & @monilovesautumn he's got a son already, he's a yr older than me. so it's just really hard to understand.