So apparently I have to plan my own baby shower and pay for it. My boyfriend is offering to pay, but…

Make an evite and have everyone RSVP by a specific time! Maybe have a BBQ potluck?? I had done that with coworkers and I had everyone bring a pack of diapers for a diaper raffle :)

I'm doing mine simple just snacks , sandwiches and cupcakes which are going to be homemade I sent out invitations on Facebook to save money on mailing them.. and just decorating with balloons cheap and simple don't stress to much on it

Don't feel bad I'm a ftm and I know for a fact no one would show up to mine if I had one because I have no friends and all my family lives 7 hours away so I'm not gonna waste my money on a baby shower knowing the only people that would show up is my boyfriend and his mom and my one cousin that just moved to the same city as me 😔

I'm currently in this same situation. I'm doing/ buying everything for my BabyShower. I have some help with it. But I'm the one doing everything.

@jazydunlap, @audreysmama @oct15newmommy I don't have a Facebook anymore so I couldn't do that :( my boyfriend said he would grill and stuff for everyone because he wants me to have one.. idk if I want to even have one because I feel like it might be a waste of money..

@aydensmommy, my boyfriend would be the one paying for it and I feel bad.

You can download an invitation app. It helps with saving money on invitations. It s called phildora and it's another called paperless

Be cause my baby shower is going to be small too. Currently into it with half my family members and friends because I'm pregnant.

@aydensmommy, thank you! :)