*Venting* I'm having an emotional break down today. I've been holding back tears as long as I could…

I hope things get better for you it's hard but what's best for you and baby in the future always main priority. knowing u deserve better is the first step but just my advice make sure he's just not ready some men just don't know.

@yesenia5, Yes I know and understand that he may not be ready but its been months and he hasn't done or said anything supportive, he doesn't call or try to spend time with me, and of everything I feel like there's someone else. I'm feeling so low at this point

girl my whole pregnancy was awful he'd go out leave me by myself I felt alone with no friends/ family it's the worst but I did leave and eventually she's 5 months now nd he's the best dad sometimes not all the time you gotta fight for your family if we give up all the time usually those are the things that were worth it. you'll know what's best tho best of luck 😘

@yesenia5, Thanks and I truly am trying to hang in there but I'm just so unhappy and miserable. I have needs and the least he could do is call and check on me or see if there's anything I need. We dont live together but we're only 5 mins apart so I figured it would be nothing to see or speak with him at least once or twice a week. I'm losing hope

Yea that's not cool at all and not healthy be Happy girl your almost done nd get to see your beautiful baby if he doesn't see that or take time then there's no need.for him until he does.

you have to be strong for your little one, he needs you stronger than ever. Don't feel miserable and remember you are not alone God will always be with you. I been through that and one day he will realize he did wring not being with you, and that one day maybe someone else will be taking care of your baby and you.

Idk why men do this..... It's like if you're honest in the beginning then we can move on... These guys like to play games idk why

,@yesenia5 Yes I've been praying that things get better @sofia90 I've been being strong for over 4 months and I still have about 4 more to go before my baby gets here. I don't think its fair to make someone wait on u that long. I know things will get better once she's born but I do have needs now and no help from family. I don't have any friends either

@mommy3, I'm sorry that you have to go through this some men just don't know when to grow up, and they show they true colors once we get pregnant, keep praying to good to give yo the strength to move on from this negative person but also l know its hard but try not to stress over it either its not good for the baby and its his loss anyway. don't feel alone cuz lm here for you, we all need a preggo buddy..things definitely will get better love 💕

really sorry to hear that darling I was 19 when I left my baby's dad already had 2 kids and no help from nobody but when you feel positive and you know things will get better at some point nothing can't stop you from doing everything you can do for you kid (s) I had to work 2 jobs it's been almost 6 years and I'm settle now waiting on my 3rd child and with a man that would give everything for my kids and me.

@faybaby89, Thank you and I know men can be so immature but my bf is twice my age so I'm like wth when it comes to him being a man @sofia90 I too got pregnant at 19 but things seemed alot easier for me then. Even after my twins were born things weren't all that bad and their dad is a complete loser, but this time around I didnt want to go thru another pregnancy alone so I thought things would be different. I just dont know what to do anymore and giving up seems too easy to do, I want to fight for what I believe in and ppl say things will get better once my baby gets here but I don't think I can wait to find out

now older guys are soooo immature. He will regret it believe me he will.

And also you gotta remember that MEN Usually will say yeah i got your back and shit but truth is he probably thought i don't want a ready made family... some men don't know the blessings children bring. so if he is rejecting you and not to talking u than don't sweat him take care of you & your kids. realize that if he doesn't want to be a stepfather now it may not change later. shit my baby that's on the way his/her dad still believes he's not the damn dad when i said i was keeping it but when i was talking about abortion he was like lets pay for it together.... When i brought up A DNA test he ignored me. mind you we had been off & on for 2 yrs... so just be glad u dont have to stick with him & know god will ultimately have your back

@sofia90, @temeshawalker Thanks guys this all is sheding a bit of light on my thoughts. I know men will do and say whatever to shut women up about the things that they choose to not deal with even for the moment. But I thought he was different. Things were so different in the beginning of our relationship but what bothers me more than anything at this point is that we have been together for over half a year and haven't had sex not one time. He's shown me his interest but never made a move to make it happen. He's so lucky I'm a faithful woman cuz I sware it's getting harger to wait on him

Well How old is girl cause my girls father was 39 when i met him and wanted alot

and don't know how u doing it im dying and its only been three months

@temeshawalker, Im 25, will be 26 in November. He just turned 46 😕

oh yeah my kids father about 17 years older than me but maybe u should bring it up to him! cause mine still had a passion up until the day he passed

@temeshawalker, Oh wow so sorry to hear that. Every time I mention my concerns to him things get out of control and its like he gets so upset for whatever reason. It's like he doesn't want me to show my concerns or come to him for comfort. Sense finding out I was pregnant he's just been so distant and kinda a jerk at times. Like I dont have the right to get upset but he does, ugh these freaking feelings of mine wont let me talk bad to him or raise my voice even when I'm truly pissed at him

So what confuses me is that he knows the situation and he still acts mean men can be sooo evil at times...

@temeshawalker, I know what you mean, its like it'll kill them to show a bit of concern or support for their women not to mention to do all the little things that makes us happy

girl and they dont get it smdh!!!! @mommy3