So I need some advice. Am I being over dramatic when I want my boyfriend to ask about my day, how I…
So I need some advice. Am I being over dramatic when I want my boyfriend to ask about my day, how I feel, or even how's the baby doing??? I feel like it's always about him and I am so sweet to him. He started a new semester of school but ever since I got pregnant he has not once asked about the baby. Am I over reacting???
Jasmin·
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Nope. You just at least want to know he cares enough to ask. I know how you feel tho
Bianca·
@jmhopp, exactly! Sometimes I feel like he doesn't because of the way he acts towards me sometimes.
Jasmin·
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Men are funny when we're pregnant. I wish I could explain it lol @littlegoobers
Bianca·
@jmhopp, only if we could switch role with them for a day to make them see what we feel. Us pregnant girls can only understand each other
Cassandre·
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awwww sounds like he's nervous about the whole thing really😟😟 like it hasn't hit him yet. I would casually talk about the baby in conversations and start telling him about your day yourself. don't obsess about it but mention something cute to make him feel comfortable about talking about it because who knows what's going on in my head of his. he might just need a little reassurance, wouldn't hurt @littlegoobers
Cassandre·
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for instance when my bf doesn't mention the baby for a couple days, I always say "baby says hi" and he goes "awwww tell baby I say hi too" 😆 that always makes me happy😊😊@littlegoobers
Bianca·
@ce5ce, oh trust me I did try mentioning it at the beginning. He gets annoyed and doesn't want to hear it. He doesn't like having baby talks. I understand he was shocked at first when he found out because my pregnancy was not planned. It just makes me feel sad because I'm enjoying my baby kick and grown while he isn't enjoying it with me. He hasn't even been to any of my doctor appointments😢
Cassandre·
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😕😕ooh noooooooo😟 he's being mean. He's definitely stressed about it and nervous. That's awful😞😞
Diana·
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@littlegoobers, you're still early in your pregnancy. It takes men a while to come around. I'm 25 weeks and my fiance is barely starting to come around. It didn't hit him till I was like come feel the baby kick lol then our ultrasounds made it better. He will come around give him time.
Tracy Pimentel 💋·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
Guys process change in different ways, and being a father some day soon is daunting and makes some men anxious because they don't know what to expect or may not feel ready. I would let him sit with it for a while. Believe me he's definitely thinking about it!