i do not pick up my daughter when she cries or anything because i know her cries and i know what she…

i do not pick up my daughter when she cries or anything because i know her cries and i know what she wants plus i dont want her to get used to being picked up all the time I always have her in her car seat her bouncer or her swing and she entertains herself and people ask me why is she soo calm and doesnt cry , but there are times when i know she needs to be in my arms like now , she was crying she didnt want her pacifier and she wasnt hungry she just wanted to fall asleep on me and I absolutely love it ❤️