sooooo my boyfriend gets paid every 2 weeks and i space all the bills out by check so that things…
sooooo my boyfriend gets paid every 2 weeks and i space all the bills out by check so that things will be due on time and we will still be able to have money left over for gas for him for work and extras that we will need.
well his last check was $1,115 we were good...
this check was supposed to be rent and utilites and his gym.
well he paid just our gas bill which was 40 bucks and his gym which was 30 and then he paid on his fine which was another 50 and something else which was another 50. so thats 170 bucks.
he saif he paid 50 of our water bill....which he did not do.
also we have our internet left to pay and our rent!!!!
i called the card last night and there is $340 left???
our rent is $510
our water/light bill is $92
and our internet is $55.
how are we gonna pay anything???
im freaking out and scared.
idk what to do.
his next check isnt gonna cover anything because it goes to the car payment and insurance and other things.
i texted him and asked why he lied to me. he said haha i told you not to call the card i have it figured out.
how he family wont help. they never do.
idk what to do.
i get $175 a month from baby sitting.
i wonder if i need to call my mom and see if she will get a loan and i will pay it every month.
idk what to do.
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💚Mizz Rita💚·
Мама троих детей
where the hell is the money at ???
Shawna Santistevan·
Ask him how he has it handled and why the money is gone? Communication is key in relationships. Even if he wants to be mean still get it out of him
Henleis Mommy❤💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
that's what im saying. i just called my mom crying cause idk what to do. @babygirl10-11 i aked him and he wont anwer...
Henleis Mommy❤💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
i have tried and he just laughs and say he has it figured out. im sure he expecting his next check to be good and its not going to be not like his last one....and he doesnt communicate. if he did i would know where the money went and i would know that we didnt have money to pay our rent. @santistevanmommie
💚Mizz Rita💚·
Мама троих детей
that is so irresponsible to just spend money knowing u got rent and other bills to be paid
Henleis Mommy❤💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
thats what im saying....then he wonders why i would prefer to handle the money and pay the bills on my own. because shit like this don't happen. yeah we dont have 100s of dollars left over but at least he has money for gas and extra stuff just in case. but everything gets paid. i dont understand. @babygirl10-11 we were supposed to have money left over next check to get henlei a new bed and to buy diapers and stuff she needs but i guess not now. 😳 i feel so defeated right now.
Gabby🎀·
Мама сына-младенца
as @santistevanmommie says communication is key! be firm with him. let him know what he is doing is wrong and ask if it was vice versa would he like it? thats how we handle things with my man u know... I always say what if it was me? would u like it? he thinkss about it and says no babe... so try it hun cuz thats messed up we as girls most of the time handle money better than them... my hubby loves that i do it cuz he says im the best at getting deals and budgeting money..and he always lets me know how much he makes n tells me what he spend it on. n no hes not pussywhipped as ppl like to say. hes just an awesome hubby! lol wish u the best! 😘
Jenna·
Мама дочки-младенца
can you call his card and see when the money was spent. I've had cards where it will tell you the history
Henleis Mommy❤💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
i tried last night. @firstbaby_girl but he lost his wallet a couple weeks ago and had to get a new card but it was just a temporary card so it doesnt have all the options as his orignal card.
Jenna·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm sorry mama. I hope it gets better for you