I never say stuff like this but im so compelled to say something today , not looking for arguments…
I never say stuff like this but im so compelled to say something today , not looking for arguments so if anyone gets upset im not hearing it , but lately this app has become a begging site for help , now im the type of person who will help anyone Id give the shirt off my back to someone in need but we don't no each other and most of us are in the same position and in need as well , I feel like it's unfair to constantly keep asking for help and posting registries and making other moms feel guilty because there is no way of helping , im not doing the best but I don't ask for nothing my boyfriend works 2 jobs im out of work because of a complicated pregnancy we don't have everything out baby needs but little by little we have been able to get him his neccesitys I lost everything a year before my pregnancy due to a car accident my car then my job then my home had to sell every bit of furniture I had to keep afloat while my youngest and myself lived here there and everywhere I had no help and I didn't come from the greatest family so there wasn't even help there , my bf and I just got into an apartment when I found out I was pregnant it was unexpected but I felt god did it for a reason we where sleeping in the floor for some time until we where able to afford an air mattress then finally just 2 weeks ago after making sure the kids had everything they needed and the baby had his neccesitys we finally saved enough to afford a bed little by little we have pulled our life back together with hard work and faith in God , and we don't ask for nothing don't get me wrong I have a few great friends who have helped us with hand me down furniture here n there and even tho it's not the newest and the nicest im im love with every piece of it I just feel like yes we all need help sometimes but constantly begging is just wrong have faith and work hard you will have what you need help is great when offered but all this begging I just find to be disgusting ! Again im sorry if I've offended anyone but it's just really been bothering me !
Cindy Kat·
В ожидании первенца
Took the words right out my mouth.. Preach!!
Krystal·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I don't want to be mean @ckatx3 and like I said I never say things like this and im sure some will continue to do it but I just feel like we are all here for support and advice and it's great I love having people to talk to and I love giving advice when I can because I have experienced allot in my life but I feel like that's what we are here for each other for when things go wrong we need to vent and there is no one else to hear us out or u just want to feel like someone cares or just want to talk about ur day and have no one to listen that's what we are here for not for begging and asking for things cuz we want to have everything brand new or more then we really need