I don't want no bashing ladies ... I just need some advice I stoped smoking ciggarett at 19 weeks…

lol this may sound like TMI BUT sex if you can, taking hot showers listening to smooth jazz reading a book

im about to sound like a pos but with my first i smoked the whole time i was pregnant i smoked like 4 maybe 5 a day and after i had her i smoked (not in the house) she os 4 years old and is never sick.

Gum? Some people swear by it!

I know what u mean I smoked for 6 years before pregnancy. I'm breastfeeding and I want to smoke so so bad. like I dream of it lol. but I can't I know it's not good plus my husband would never let me

thank you @temeshawalker

thanks and no your not I just stopped because my mom asked me to . @scarlettnikol

lol I was Actaully chewing gum while smoking @nicole_jude

i wanted to stop but my ob said if i did it could kill her so he told me to cut down. im smoking atm but ive cut down a lot

I know plenty of girls who have chained smoked throughout their pregnancy. my neighbor chain smokes while breast feeding

These last few months have been ridiculous. I wasn't going to post it on here but I might as well. 3 weeks before my due day I had called a friend to find out where my baby daddy was because we live in different counties he's on probation and is going through a bunch of crap with whatever is going on with his probation officer and court and stuff well I found out that he was staying at another girl's house and I flipped out and his reasoning for him staying there was because he couldn't wake up in time to go to his appointment which is a bunch of b******* . well I thought that we straighten some things out and I love him so I decided to just let it be and stay with him a week before my due date he left me and come to find out this girl that he had been living with was now living with him and everytime I get a text from him it would say that I was psycho and I need a counseling and that I was a beached whale and stupid a whole bunch of b******* drama wow he told me he was going to take me to court and I told him that court within to do anything for him because he's mad vacation for 5 years he can't keep a job here in support himself he was living in a motel and by the time he had the money for paternity test because I wasnt letting him sign the birth certificate he would already have another girl knocked up and being the same situation with her. he left her and he wanted to talk and wanted to meet his daughter so I decided to let him because he refused to be at the hospital he told me he had to work which he could have called off if you really wanted to be there I didn't progress after 47 years I had to have a c-section and after the c-section I almost died and it was a horrible experience for me anyways he had asked me if we could work things out and I told him that I want him to know everything that happened between them and he told me that they never dated that she was texting me the entire time which some of the texts I know for a fact weren't him because of the way the words are spelled the words that were being used but I love him and he shouldn't have done what he did and it wasn't right and I want our family and I'm not in a competition and I'm trying to work things out with him and his family and mend our relationship but its hard and I can't like I don't know how and its so stressful and she just won't leave her alone and it's gettin

g f****** out of hand and I just don't even know what to do anymore like I can't handle this s***@scarlettnikol

she does ? while holding the baby ? @momma_beffers

@momma_beffers, sooo.. that makes it ok to you?

its not good to smoke around the baby so if you need one just dont do it by the baby thats all. i know its stressfull ive been through it. i understand. if tou need someone to talk to just message me

how do I message you ? @scarlettnikol

i messaged uou

I can't get messages apparently because there not coming up @scarlettnikol

it should show in your up right hand corner. the one to the left of your notifications

Ya ! I've seen other moms accidentally ash on their babies head too

did u get the new preggie update?