It saddens me sometimes when little girls who are young like me be inboxing me on fb like "we look up to you" " your baby bump is so cute i want a baby"

" i wanna be like you and baby's father"

and i be tellin them like no you dont , finish school, go to college , get married .... Being a young mom is hard especially if you cant handle it .

and these girls be like 15 or 16.

I be having having to tell them like its so much easier when your prepared and you can take care of your kids by yourself and that sometimes i wish i would have waited ,yes i finished highschool but i didnt go to college and i wanted to