Its hard talking "Baby Things" with my friend. Both of us expecting so it should be a good thing,…

Its hard talking "Baby Things" with my friend. Both of us expecting so it should be a good thing, but its far from good. It feels like a competitive aspect with her & i'm not even trying to compete or bragg.. She text me today asking what I was doing so naturally I tell her putting baby clothes in the dresser. Well you would think she would leave it at that lol nope not her she asks how much clothes the baby has, im lik its enough to start with nothing major since I just started buying clothes.. Again, I explain to her that I only really spend money when I see clearance lol majority of the stuff I got was mark down expect gerber stuff 😑. Then she brings up the bill issue like i dont pay bills either 😂😂.. Had to let her know stop trying to live above what you can afford, & also humble yourself.. Then I explain to her again that im buying stuff on my own because I will not be having a baby shower where you get things that will help you.. I just dont know how to get through to her with out it making it seem lik im "better" than her..