Everyone thinks a bad of me like I'm a slut or something because I'm not with the father of my baby.…
Everyone thinks a bad of me like I'm a slut or something because I'm not with the father of my baby. Also my baby has measured with a due date of the 3rd 4th 7th 9th 11th 14th and 15th so far so there is two possibilities. But I'm 99% sure it's one guys and they both know about each other and the possibilities. But the guy I'm pretty sure that the baby is his, wants nothing to do with me or the baby. I dont know what the point of this post is I just wanted to put it out there and see what people think I guess..
Sarah Cervantes·
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Don't worry about what other people think. Be the best you can be for yourself and your baby. Don't let other people get you down❤️
Amanda·
our situation is close.. only difference is I dont have 2 different guys that it could be. my babys father didnt want anything to do with us. hes told me he hates me and only talks to me bc of the baby. I have forced him to be financially responsible. since we fight about this situation alot, mostly him lying about taking responsibility, I have come to the point that I will find a way if need be to take him to court. it takes two to make a baby. it takes two to be responsible for the baby. like @sarahrachel0715 said, dont worry about what other people think. do what is best for you and your baby. even if that means a dna test for both men and court for child support.
cassi·
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This is who I'm 99% sure is the father.
cassi·
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This is the other possibility. I won't need a DNS test lol
twinmamma2015·
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I left my "donor" because he flipped on me. He used to be super sweet and then when I got pregnant he started getting aggressive and violent and just a complete jerk. So I am doing this all alone and my friends and family said that if he tries to come around to tell him I don't know who the daddy is. Lol even my pastors wife said "tell him your a slut and don't know who the dad is!" lol I about died laughing when I heard her say that! lol! I'd rather tell ppl I'm a slut than have their daddy be involved with them. I know that it sounds terrible but for their safety I'd put my reputation on the line ☺ so who cares what ppl say!
cassi·
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I always just say I don't know how the dad is.. But I do. I'm almost 100% sure it's the blue eyed boys baby. But he wants nothing to do with us anyways so why would I claim him if he won't claim is.
cassi·
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Who* not how..
twinmamma2015·
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Exactly! Babies are not toys or pets that you can just pick up or drop whenever it's not what you want. If he doesn't want to be part of your baby's life or your life then dont. I wouldn't, but that it just how I feel about it