so I was in a car accident when I was 4.. i was hit by a drunk driver, temporarily paralyzed and I…

so I was in a car accident when I was 4.. i was hit by a drunk driver, temporarily paralyzed and I did not know who my family was. I won a lawsuit against Indiana insurance company, and the money was put in a trust. pays to do my hair, went to private school, bought a car and now I'm asking them to go to college and buy a house.. well, I had to go to court for that. my parents came along. he said that they weren't going to pay for college because I was collecting social security since i am "disabled".. i never collected social security. my mom was explaining my disability to the judge saying she will tell ppl she has a disabled daughter and no one can tell at first. she has been telling my siblings this when I was younger and they would make fun of me for it saying "mom even says you are a retard". :'( now my mom is texting my baby daddy saying she wants to explain my disabilities to him hoping we get along better... all my ex bfs and ex friends and family tell me I'm spoiled and I can get whatever I want and I have the trust fund to fall back on while everybody else works for what they have . but they don't know how it works or how I feel daily thinking of the car accident and this wreck that makes it harder to get along with ppl, ppl see me as disabled. I have no choice whether that money is there or not! I have no choice if I am "disabled"! I could be collecting people's tax money.. but I dont. i could be receiving food stamps.. but I don't ..