papers are in for shared time with my step daughter I've tried to understand her mom but nothing…

papers are in for shared time with my step daughter I've tried to understand her mom but nothing works she just hates that we are married and our princess is coming I've been nothing but respectful to her and non in return except telling my stepdaughter " we don't do step mommies" well well well the courts it is....all we need is her address so the cops can server her...I can't wait I know my husband misses her and its hard that its either his daughter or me and our daugther...babymama drama I swear