Anyone else hate when people make it seem like money is all that matters? My husbands in the…
Anyone else hate when people make it seem like money is all that matters? My husbands in the military and once his time is up he was thinking about going guard instead of active. It's no definite decision yet but I was for it because we wanna settle down, buy a house, finish schooling and our daughter would be starting school... My "friend" tried making me feel like I'm dumb for wanting him to do that because I won't have his money to pay for everything! Uh excuse me? I for one would have a job and two I don't give a shit about his money. We were together before the military ever happened and survive with our shitty payments. Clearly she doesn't understand because she's a very high maintenance person whose husband is twice her ago & also in the military.. I hate people thinking money buys happiness. Maybe for the moment but not long term.
Rachel Croxton·
Мама дочки-младенца
My husband did that, and honestly, it's been one of the worst decision's he said he's ever made. He hates the guard. He said they are more strict then they are when you're actually active duty, he said basically what they are doing is training them for deployments. he's actually gone for his 2 weeks this week and next... the weekends suck, this first week has been horrible without him... But, I'd honestly think long and hard before he makes a decision.. Money isn't an issue, you still get 300$ a month and 1500$ for the 2 weeks, which is bare minimum and plenty for me. But Yeah... just think about it more before you guys make a decision because he may end up regretting it. My husband is about to actually get discharged because he's had too many warnings because they are so strict.
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
Trust me he knows she's only with him for the money. it won't last long. nothing lasts long when it's just about money. marriage is a sacred commitment made between two people that love each other. if they got married because of money then he's already messing around looking for someone solid. nk one likes a gold digger. I don't care how high maintenance you are , if you want to stay that way you better get used to working for your own money . it was the same thing with my daughter father. I barely ask him for shit but when i do its for our daughter or a good cause . and lately he makes it seem like every since he started working I been asking for his money . um no I have my own job and my own money I don't need anything from you . and I pay back everything I borrow.
Gabrielle·
В ожидании первенца
Really? I never heard of the guard being like that. My husbands Air Force right now and my dad was guard but he never had any issues. He deployed twice in the 22 yrs he was in @rachelmariecroxton I'll be fine if he stays in. I mean either way we can still have our plans I just got annoyed how she made it seem like money was the only thing important & that is all I should care about. I personally like having my own money to contribute not just use his
missing88user·
Мама троих детей
my husband just did his last tour last year and now does construction and welding Lol money isn't everything and only ignorant ppl think that. it's a change but it's all worth it as long as you and your family are happy!
missing118user·
В ожидании первенца
Money is NOT everything true. But it makes things a whole lot easier. The struggle is real :/ When I first got together with my bf I told him money didn't mattter (he didn't want to ask me to be his gf till he was on his feet, i told him I'd help him get on his feet) he told me it didn't matter but it does make the world go round. After all of our struggles, I now understand why he said that and why he wanted to wait... it's been 2 hard long years and we're barely getting up on our feet, its been draining and depressing.. but finally we're at a place where we can relax.