I Have A Question Ladies ! My Boyfriend's Babymama Doesn't Like Me (For No Reason Though) & I Don't…

just give it to her you can always change it. sounds like your the only level headed one in the situation. if she gets childish than change it .

and I only say give it to her bc of the step son

I would give it to her. I mean it's her son so she's going to throw that at you if you don't. You would probably do the same if your kid was with your ex girlfriend. And like what @momofroyalty said change it if it gets to crazy

I Know I'm Just Afraid It's Going 2 Get Deeper Than That Because She's Not Mature Enough Yet She Still Does Petty Things Like When My Boyfriend Drops or Picks His Son Up She'll Leave Her Items (Like Scarves & Stuff In The Car Sorry I Left That Part Out )Around & I Wanted 2 Be Cordial Since Day 1 But Her Feelings For My Bf Has Her Crazy But It's Not My Fault They Separated I Even Gave Him A Choice 2 Be With Her or Rebuild His Family@momofroyalty

he made his choice and eventually he's going to have to let her know he's where he wants to be and she needs to move on. she sounds unstable. only a great ignorant little girl would try to make you believe he's cheating with her and you help with her kid. she's team too much

I'm Leaving Out So Many Details #1 She Works Alot #2 She Wanted My Boyfriend 2 See Him May 9th But Had His Clothes Packed So She Can Go Out (Which I Think Was A Front So He Could See Her Dressed Up ) #3 I Quit My Job 2 Babysit Him Because She Doesn't Have Common Sense 2 Find A Daycare #4 She's Always More Concerned With Being With My Boyfriend & Trying 2 Get In Where She Fits In She Doesn't Take Care of Him Properly & #5 If I Was A Mom I Would Be Fine If She Was A Great Stepmom Like Me I Wouldn't Have A Issue Because I Know She'll Take Care of My Child Like I Would & We Can Be Cordial Because We're Mature She's Not Mature Yet I Don't Think @jrose114

I had the same issues with the ex-wife at first. Until the two of us had a grown woman convo about boundaries. She had to respect the fact that she was done being the wife 2 years before I came in the picture and all she is is Jaylens mom. Her concern is not the relationship or family we've built. I also reassured her that I'm not tryna be Jaylens mother but will love him as if hes my own. I also had to explain that she cant just call, come by etc whenever she wanted just because she was in the area and wanted to see her son. My hubby had the convo first and then she and I did. Now we have an understanding and mutual respect. She now has my number, don't have any drama for the most part. She has her moments when she wishes she never left my husband because she sees how well he takes care of our family (her bad). But over all were good. Sit with her and have a nice convo...kill her with kindness...if she starts trippin walk away...dont support that kinda energy!

Yes & I've Only Tried Being Nice Since Day 1 Since He Was Born I've Always Considered Her Feelings Even After The Disrespect . It's Not Like He Cheated With Me Because Those Games I Don't Play & He's Told Her I Told Her His Mom Told Her Even His Sister & She Doesn't Get It or Care Because She'll Leave Her Scarves & Stuff Around In The Car 2 Make It Seem Like Something Is Going on WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS JUNE 27TH & My Stepson Will Be 2 August 22nd

@momofroyalty,

I Want 2 Very Badly Because of The Sake of My Stepson , I Can Never Replace Her & He Knows That I Talk 2 Him All The Time . I Want Respect But With The Things That She Does I Have 2 Overlook It & Let Her Know My Boyfriend Feels She Isn't Ready Yet Which I Clearly Can See But The More We Put It Off The Worse It's Gonna Get Because She Will Think It's Ok For Her 2 Continue 2 Do What She Does & I Want Us 2 Come 2 An Agreement Where Things Are Cordial For Him & I Know She Feels The Same About Leaving My Boyfriend That's Why She Does The Things She Does But I Overlook It & I'll Talk 2 The Hubby About It Thanks For The Advice@cameryn_cameronsmom2016

Your welcome...it took for husband to go to court to get visitation set so she had no control. she would control him by using their son...and if he went against what she said he wouldnt see his kid. After that things have been different...he puts his foot down and thats it

I Know I've Told Him That Several Times But Now That She Lets Him Come Around He's Giving Up A Little & That's What I Hate But I May Have 2 Give Him A Ultimatum @cameryn_cameronsmom2016

Girl it's the same way with me I feel you

Yes It's So Aggy Especially After Being Nice Time After Time @heaven