Gonna Try To Have My Baby Normal... But If I Hear They Gonna Have To Tear My Vagina ....😰😰😩😧😧😦 Ima…

A good doc or midwife should be able to help prevent tearing. Some ladies massage the area the weeks leading up to labor with oils to help keep the skin soft and stretchy, and I also heard bouncing on an exercise ball will help toughen up the skin a little.

Have the baby normal? What is normal these days? Haha.

a good Dr will avoid 91st all cost, but if you need a stitch when they tell you it would've been done already. with everything else going on you won't feel a thing. experience it well worth it

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uhmmm its just scary... I'm really small xD @imstillhungry what oil?

& I dont want a stitch or stitches that sounds scary n painful... xc

@mopace,

it's no painful

I'm small too...but my mom did it, so I'm sure I can! I think in the moment, you probably won't even notice if you do tear.

and most docs don't do episiotomies anymore. That's what I was told, anyway.

It's not that bad. I just had an episiotomy done a week ago. You've got this! You don't want the pain/recovery time of a c-section!