this Friday was supposed to be my last day of work before my maternity leave, but nothing ever seems…
this Friday was supposed to be my last day of work before my maternity leave, but nothing ever seems to go as planned. I know my son is trying to make his debut soon but I've got this feeling that when I see my doctor on Wednesday I won't be dilated at all. my man still has yet to get a freaking job even though he's put in applications and called places to check on the status of his applications. therefore, I gotta push back my maternity leave even though everything hurts and sleep is a joke recently
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
make his ass go down to the unemployment office. applications just not enough . have him go to every job he applied to or at least call up there to check the application status or at least talk to a manager . if he really wants to work he will go the extra mile . you're pregnant. you shouldn't have to do all the work . this is your maternity leave. take it you need it mama . don't strain yourself when you shouldn't have to . it's not fair
Beth·
В ожидании первенца
@monilovesautumn would the unemployment office help him land a job?? and I agree I can't take much more of me working anymore. my body hurts so much and I am lucky if I'm asleep by 3am each night :/
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
yes they can . they can give him a list of places that's currently hiring and even help him with temp agencies that will pay him to work. those temp agencies can turn into actual jobs @14emathews
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
take your maternity leave you body is telling you to rest. you can go into pre term labor of you put your body through too much stress
Beth·
В ожидании первенца
@monilovesautumn :o omg! that sounds wonderful!!! we need the money for when our son comes and I'm trying to hold the little guy in for as long as I can so I can work and save money for when I leave, but my body basically feels as if its decaying 😩😩
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
yes hun , you need rest . your health is just as important... you already did enough now it's his turn
Beth·
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@monilovesautumn thank you so so much for the information! <3 and I agree its been his turn lmao. its been close to a month now since he graduated highschool. I've been working since January and by this point I'm just over working. I just want my son to be born so my body can go back to normal and we can be a little family :3
Moni·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (14 нед.)
aww , I'm sure you will . it's like that for me too. I feel so big right now . and anytime hun! that's what I'm here for 💕💕
mopace·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего
relax sweetie. he'll be here when he's ready. he's still cooking.. as bad as I won't my daughter who's giving me the business physically, I don't want her no earlier than I need her..
Beth·
В ожидании первенца
@mopace I agree! my son needs to cook...just not overcook. I was two weeks overcooked and almost didn't make it :/ just when my body starts hurting, I wouldn't mind if he decides to come, however I'm scared to give birth so when my body feels normal, I tell him to take his time. lmao he probably doesn't know what to do at this point
mopace·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего
just keep licking and moving. trust I know abt the back pelvic sciatica pain swollen feet ankles and knees and the excessive peeing and sweating. Lord help me. I'm scared to get my hair done cause it sweats to much
mopace·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего
@14emathews,