to be honest I'm a first time mom & worried about childbirth .. my mom had HUGE baby's & so did my mother in law ... my…

my biggest was one of my easiest to have. almost 9lbs and 3 hours of labor . babies often measure 2 weeks bigger or smaller too. don't worry yourself too much.

thanks @junebaby im a little new to all of this

I understand. It's always scary with your first baby cause you don't know what to expect

my first was 9 lbs 4 Oz (measured 3-4 weeks ahead all the time). this baby will probably be the same way. don't worry and don't let them pressure you into a c-section because of a big baby!

& my husband REFUSES to read this book I bought him to help him understand me -.-

Thanks @emilyyy96___ I REALLY want to do natural ! but my husbands nervous isn't a fan of hospitals so he's putting pressure on c section especially when we go & the doctor starts to talk about how young I am & blah blah blah

yeah don't do it! if he isn't a fan of hospitals imagine how freaked out he's gonna be to see you in surgery and recovering from that and seeing your incision..... I'm 19 and on baby #2. both c sections. just let the baby come when they're ready and relax! take a birthing class and bring hubby with you! I forced my boyfriend to go lol. he needs to learn to support your choices. just know c sections are a lot more pain and recovery. Google "things they didn't tell me before I had a c-section" and make him read it.

He would die I had a bursted staff infection and had to go into immediate surgery and he cried the whole time he had like a panic attack in the wait room that's even before we were married

either way he's going to freak @emilyyy96___

oh goodness lol.