So yesterday was a crazy up and down hormonal day! .. Sick of it .. Sort of feeling in two minds tho…
So yesterday was a crazy up and down hormonal day! .. Sick of it .. Sort of feeling in two minds tho 😶 this may be a little tmi but have to get it out ... For the last few month I've felt like my partner has gotten very sick of me .. We hardly ever get intimate anymore (have sex) but we went and had a lovely meal out last night .. We got on to a conversation and he told me he hates it because he thinks of the baby at the time .. He isn't scared he's hurting the baby he's not daft but he just thinks it's wrong .. So I'm glad it's not me but if I have to wait till the end of my pregnancy I'm gonna struggle! Dunno what to do because he's not a cuddly person so will feel like detached from him in a way
mummy123·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
I can relate to this somewhat tell him he needs to be more affectionate towards you lots of cuddles and kisses if he doesnt feel comfortable havin sex you could do other things,🙊i found it quite difficult with my last pregnancy we were hardly ever intimate,and after babbi,it took my 5/6mnths until i felt okay to be intimate again.Hoping things get better for you @jodipatton xx
Jodi Patton·
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Thank you @mummy123 .. Obviously it's a long time to not have anything.. And then I start thinking it's my fault and I know it's not but its hard when we we're always together and now we're not xxx
Sara·
aww so sorry to hear that . I am only 6 weeks and tbh we not had it since 1st may when I found out I'm pregnant becoz I am scared what if any thing happens while having it. my hubby has been complaining and moaning but tbh don't take it to the heart . don't over stress try to resolve it another way 😉 xx
Jodi Patton·
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Thank you chick @sara87 it's just hard because everything has changed between me and him and it's just getting used to the fact that this is how it's going to be xx
Sara·
Things do chanfge babe becoz us womans arnt the same in every way once we are pregnant . we ladies think about our babys mens of course they do also but not more than us woman's we make sure we think twise to do anything . there's nothing we can do plus try to speak to your partner that's what I did last night I'm. hoping he's better . 😮
Jodi Patton·
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Yeah I know it's just he's hard to talk to sometimes .. He's a proper mans man xx @sara87
Sara·
I can imagine . stay strong xx
shelby·
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I understand your pain it's been nearly 6 months for me but I suppose it's easier because I'm not with my baby's dad anymore xx
Jodi Patton·
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I'm used to us being really close that's all @shelby
shelby·
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I was exactly the same at first we went from been like rabbits to nothing literally overnight best thing to do is talk to him and tell him it's bothering you x
Elisabete·
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My boyfriend is the same...in the first trimestre he was all over me but i was too sick and tired to want anything..and now that im good he is scared because of the baby. Might sound stupid but what i did was explain to him properly where the baby is and stuff and looked up online answers to his questions and now hes ok with it😊 maybe try that see if it works 😘
Jodi Patton·
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Hahaha @shelby yeah that's the same with us! ..
And it's just one of them he knows he's not hurting her or anything he just thinks it's wrong with the baby being there @elisabetesantos xx
shelby·
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I always found surprise helped abit for me xx