Just want to throw this out there. When I found out I was pregnant I was 21. Yes I had a job but as…
Just want to throw this out there.
When I found out I was pregnant I was 21.
Yes I had a job but as a waitress without any benefits, I didn't get paid maternity leave.
My boyfriends job couldn't pay any bills.
I had to turn to my mother for help.
I had my own place which I was struggling to keep over my head without any income coming in.
I was not mentally prepared for a baby.
I still don't have a career I'm doing the same thing.
I still rely on my mother for help.
And guess what I am not a teen.
I am 21 years old, so does that make me in the same category though as if I shouldn't have a baby??
Everything in your life changes when you have a child, your aspect on life everything. You start doing what's best for your child no matter the age. Children always come first no matter how old you are when you become a mother.
If you are up for the challenge, then you are doing the best you could do at any age and I solute you.
kjacks6347·
Yes! I'm am in that same position. The only thing that should matter is that we are all mothers who would die for their children. Age doesn't change that. A mom is a mom.
Courtney·
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I thought you were way older then 21 lol!
Courtney·
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but you are doing great as a mommy you can tell by his beautiful smile and the pictures of you two
megan·
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Exactly @kjacks6347 as long as you are trying!! That's all that matters. I am not @courtney_boyea lol well I'm 22 now. But I get that a lot.
Courtney·
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haha I seriously though you were like my age 25. I always get that I look like I'm still in high school lol
megan·
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@courtney_boyea, that's funny!! It either goes both ways you look older or younger :)
megan·
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@18andpregnant,
megan·
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@babyboolala,