So ladies I need some advice, my fiance is wanting to become a police officer, and I talked to my mom and my memaw about…

So ladies I need some advice, my fiance is wanting to become a police officer, and I talked to my mom and my memaw about it, my mom didn't really have an opinion, but my memaw thinks it's a good idea, after talking to my memaw my mind is changed a little, I'm concerned about the obvious reasons, but I was wondering if anyone is a police spouse and how is it for you? how is with your relationship and were they a police officer before or after you met? I'm in serious need of advice and I have nowhere else to turn, I can't talk about it on social media or anything, and his mom would be Satan about it, but I want to support him, but not forget about my feelings.