🚨🚨RANT🚨🚨 Important : please no bashing me, I need to vent not be criticized. So for those who have…
🚨🚨RANT🚨🚨
Important : please no bashing me, I need to vent not be criticized.
So for those who have read previous posts my mother had surgery and my daughter, cat, and I came to stay with her to help her out. We were under the impression her surgery was going to be this God awful event, I even tried making a gofund me for her to try and help her financially. Well that didn't work but we are here and the first night I stayed I was suppose to help her pack and get ready for the next day. Well she yelled at me the whole time telling me I don't understand stress and this and that Well I cried because the whole reason I came that night was to help not be yelled at. Well the next day she left for surgery and my friend came over for a couple days. Well my mother got a rental car for me to use since my fiance needed my car for work and my mothers car went into the shop. So we had a deal that I drive carefully and She wont pay more to add me on the insurance. The first thing she says when she gets out of surgery is Christina can't drive the car!! She isn't on the insurance. So my grandma had to take me up there and put me on, and if they wouldn't let me then she was going to take the keys. Well then I get my school refund money out of no where and I was able to buy baby girl some summer items that she really needed and I got myself perfume, and two pairs of shorts. I told my fiance it was in there and he used it on gas and cigs. I didn't tell my mother I had the money or she would of wanted it all for some reason. Well she comes home and I get her home really clean, help take care of what she needs bla bla, and then she started taking pain pills. Now long story short she was a big pill popper and would fall out, burn blankets by falling asleep smoking, you get the idea. So she has been good since she got a bf. Well she fell asleep smoking burnt her chest, then she fell asleep eating cake in the kitchen and dropped the glass cake pan. and she has been so rude. Like I needed to take my med school finals and she took the TV from the living room and my daughter had nothing to hold her attention and she wouldn't help me with her so I couldn't focus my my test. Well she came home with a list of stuff she can do, and she can do A LOT MORE then she wants to do. Like she couldn't of helped me with dishes , watched my daughter while I was in the same room, just make sure she doesn't crawl anywhere, wipe her own ass. Now I had to carry 5 loads of laundry in from the car her bf stood there and watched didn't even help. She says she doesn't need my help anymore but won't do anything but smoke, burn stuff, fall asleep eating, bitch. My daughter needs more formula till I get my new wic on friday, we have 40 bucks but he needs that for gas to get to work till Friday. it takes him 2hours to drive. plus traffic. so I asked if I could have a 20 her formula is 13.48. she said yeah but you owe me so much money....... excuse me??? paid for your laundry because you wanted to keep all the quarters for some collection. who bought you groceries? who has been here or almost two weeks trying to help you, while being pregnant sleeping on a love seat, with a sick 8monyh old, and not getting to see my fiance and Ella not seeing her dad? who has been a maid and tried to get my schooling done at the same time? and you want to be greedy an only give our grand daughter formula is I can pay you back? We get money Friday yes. He get 812. 350 goes to bills, 100 goes to his dad for rent, 120 goes to gas for two weeks and 90 for his cigs for two weeks, 100 goes to getting our cars titled changed and new insurance. and the rest has to go to diapers ,wipes, cat food, and my medicine. so I am sorry I can't pay you back for what all I have done for you now, and in the past. I am so fucking sorry.
Trezelle·
В ожидании первенца
Wow sounds like she's taking advantage of you! That's so sad smh
Christina·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I have seriously saved her life more then once, from her being stupid. She is a money hungry bitch. If She can get some she will. I am trying to pay our debt off and try to save money so my little family can get back on our feet. But it is going to take a minute. she just fell and hit her head on the wall...... and its my fault?
Henleis Mommy❤💜·
Мама дочки-младенца
i agree. shes totally taking advantage of you i know shes your mom but i would leave. her bf can take care of her. she sounds very ungrateful for all you are doing for her.
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
She sound ungrateful. She need to get it together. That's not right.
Christina·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Well my fiance is making us come back Friday. Its just I care so much and I try and do the right thing gs by helping my mom. and I should of known she would do this. but oh well. I guess it just proves I am the better person. I use to give her money 24/7 did I ever ask for it back? no because she is family. my dad and grandma say the same thing they have helped us out a few times and I tell them when we can I will pay you back and they keep saying no! you are family if we can help we will and I will be paying them back some day when I can. but it's the fact that I am not asking her for CIG money or Money to get junk food or whatever. it is for food for her granddaughter!!!!!!!! also when I had my food stamps it all went to her because she needed food too. ungrateful.......
Sara B·
В ожидании первенца
so sorry you are going through this girl@xocoryellox
Christina·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Thank you!