Why are guys so insensitive?? I woke up crying because of all the terrible terrible dreams I had…

Why are guys so insensitive?? I woke up crying because of all the terrible terrible dreams I had last night and my best friend (who is a guy) asked about them and told me that I need to tell my fiance. so when I did which was right after because he was in the bathroom, all he said was "why didn't you tell me first?" um he asked?? because my best friend always puts me and how I am feeling first. so now he is mad at me and is ignoring me... this will be a great day.