...so i was just told "your pregnant not disabled...just remember that" by my fiancé bcuz i asked…
...so i was just told "your pregnant not disabled...just remember that" by my fiancé bcuz i asked him to unplug the computer for me...he was standing right next to it and my hands were already full and i still had to pick up the dog. i didnt know it was too much to ask. 😔 maybe it's just hormones but he's never said anything mean like this to me before. 💔 its just getting uncomfortable to bend over that far...i feel awful for asking him. and bcuz since i got sad over his comment now im the one being ridiculous...not usually one to vent on here but i just...💔 its time for bed...
Stephanie Schultz·
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that was a really rude comment. granted we may not be disabled but being pregnant is a big impact on us womens bodies.
missing107user·
He was wrong he could have done it with you without saying anything he was just upset cause he (had to go out of his way). My husband does the same thing sometimes
missing107user·
Done it for you *
missing107user·
They think they are really going out of their way and all they are doing is a simple favor
deleted-user·
why do you feel awful by asking him something so simple. i dont care if my husband is in the living room and im in the bedroom and tell him to turn on the fan he's going to do it and with a kiss after . he have to understand its alot we cannot do being pregnant and i can see why his comment bothered you because it would bother me.
Elizabeth Zamora·
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i have no idea where that comment even came from. I'm growing his baby and it does affect me physically and emotionally :'( its just frustrating to me that i can't shake it off (thanks hormones)...but since i won't cry in front of him im just trying to hold it all back. @pregnant1109
Elizabeth Zamora·
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thanks girls...at least i know im not wrong for being upset :( @jrose114 @phasion
bella🌻·
U shouldn't feel awful, he should want to do things for u. If u ask him is not bc ur acting disabled, it's bc he's there and u may not feel up to it all the time. Tbh I tell myself that all the time that I'm not disabled but as time progresses no matter how normal I try to act and go about my everyday things, I have noticed the changes and the impact it's been having on some of the things I do, like putting on my shoes for instance or bending over. He should be a little more sympathetic and u should not feel bad for asking him a favor.
Elizabeth Zamora·
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thank you @kibella22 it feels like little things are getting harder i just am so used to having his support this is the first time I've ever really realized it.