ladies had any of your SO ever not wanted to know info on the pregnancy die tho their stress or…

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significant other.. for me its my husband... he seems pretty shy of knowing whats going on in the pregnancy... idk if hes just stressed about becoming a dad for the first time or money or unsure of what his role is in pregnancy but im a little bummed by the distance he has from baby and him... @mssjudyk

That was my newborns dad and for me that pretty much killed our relationship 😁 he said he not into the prelim stuff he just wanted to see her in the flesh he can't get enough of her now but as my pregnant partner he left me hanging n I harbor resentment so we aren't together right now 😕

in the beginning it felt like he didn't care... he wouldn't ask about nothing do nothing say nothing it was a lol hurtful bt then my belly started growing and he staryed talking to baby and always touching my tummy.. started asking about the baby how i felt if everything was ok... i always cook (since we got out house) but there has been a couple of times where I'd post on FB i was feeling horrible and didn't feel like cookimg or doing anything and he'd surprise me with food .. it was nice :)

I knew it was because of stress, for many reasons.... new to being a daddy, felt like he needed a better job (so he got one) we were living at his moms, didn't have a place (so he got one) money is always a stress... i felt how distant he was but also understand why... I'd ask him till he told me... i told him the reason i needed to know was because it was hurting me.. i felt hurt and depressed and unmotivated .. but ince i confided why he told me why too..

nice... i think since its still early he is just unsure of what his role is... i don't hold it against him.. i just wish he was somewhat excited like i am... i think its nerves... hopefully when r find out what it is and it becomes more apparent he will be like your hubby @mssjudyk

So sorry you were left hanging... i would be disappointed to if my hubby wasn't there with me..

@ginag918,

Thank you, I'm slowly getting over it but he didn't do the appointments didn't ask how they went, wasn't into feeling her kick but he was present for her birth and ever since, I mean I felt like ish pregnant but in the end it's about how my baby feels so long as he doesn't leave her hangin I won't complain