I really can't stand my non supporting in-laws. They are "church" going people and believe they are…
I really can't stand my non supporting in-laws. They are "church" going people and believe they are holier than thou. They constantly talk down on my fiance and I being lesbian and i am all for people's opinions. But on numerous occasions we have been told that being gay is an "abomination" not "Obamabation" When we lost our baby in March they were very relieved. I have been racial slurs countless time and just a whole book of things. I don't want our baby around them period, I dont want them to touch, hold, watch, kisd, nada with our child. They are very disrespectful and rude.. I know im probably in the wrong but seriously I can't deal anymore.. I'm too high risked to be stressed out by ignorant people.. Sorry, rant over!!
Natanya·
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I don't think you're in the wrong at all. I wouldn't even be talking to them now. I can't stand judgmental people, especially judgmental religious people. You shouldn't have that type of negativity in your life. I definitely would not allow them around my child. love knows no bounds, and if they're too ignorant to see that, then it's their loss. sorry you have to go through what you're going through
Amanda·
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Your so not wrong! I'm so sorry you have to deal with that it's not OK at all. nobody deserves to be treated that way. And I think your completely right not wanting your baby near them. I had a sister who told me how happy she was when I had my last miscarriage and she's not allowed to see this baby. I don't trust her. You can't be relieved my child has passed away but expect me to feel safe enough to leave my baby with you! Do what you gotta do hun. Sometimes unfortunately I think there's no way around the unpleasant people of the world
Jessica❤·
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Thank you @bbyenolan22 and @anelalii. I said what i had to say and my fiance broke it off with me. I dont know if its from all the stress between her family and I. but I've kept my mouth shut for so long and I cant take it anymore.
Jessica❤·
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@anelalii,
Amanda·
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I'm sorry to hear that. It could just be stress I'm bet that situation is hard on her end too. I'll keep you in my thoughts and hope everything works out. Sometimes it's best to let everyone know exactly what we think even if it sucks after
Jessica❤·
Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего
Thank you@bbyenolan22 i really appreciate it.
missing118user·
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ignore them. there's nothing more annoying or painful to inlaws than that... to not even aknowledge their presence. they'll learn. like mine did..
missing118user·
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i didn't let her phase me and now look at her, throwing me a babyshower, I wasn't expecting zilch from her... she came thru