i had a bridal shower and we got married .by justice of the peace in my parents back yard. then we had a bbq. very simple but nice

well we are having baby showers then to have a bridal shower i think that would be too much. we are trying to get married before bella comes in august

this is my first wedding my fiances second

Not at all!!!! I've seen sooo many people do this! It's still a wedding just no traditional ceremony so treat it like one! Go for it!:)

You can do what makes you happy love.