I have my first appointment today at 4 weeks 6 days. They usually don't schedule them this early but…

I have my first appointment today at 4 weeks 6 days. They usually don't schedule them this early but I'm high risk. Is there anything I should ask the doctor? All of a sudden this morning I'm so nervous my brain isn't working. I miscarried on my wedding day last year and it took 16 days to pass. Last night I picked my 5 year old up not thinking but I'm not cramping or anything like last time so I'm assuming I'm ok...but I also don't have morning sickness like I've had all along. Sorry for rambling. I'm sure some (probably most) of you understand the wait to get past the miscarriage. It's amplified even you've been pregnant 7 times and only have one baby. I just can't calm my brain. I know I should have questions for the doctor but I just can't think. Thanks ladies.