I'm super freakin irritated with the fact that my boyfriend thinks I can't do anything. I can't pick…

I'm super freakin irritated with the fact that my boyfriend thinks I can't do anything. I can't pick up the basket of towels or pick up a small stack of plates (not like I'm lifting over my head) but I draw the line at cleaning my kitchen. He can cook and leave food and grease all over and look at it for a couple days but I can and will NOT. When I cook I clean at the same time. Making sure the dishes are in the dishwasher and the counters are wiped off. He swears I'm hurting the baby by using Lysol all purpose cleaner. I'm in a well ventilated area because our kitchen and living room are open concept so it's a pretty big area. Then says I'm hurting the baby by breathing in fumes which btw Lysol isn't as strong as most cleaners you can just smell the lemon scent. It just irks me that I already had to stop being "independent" and let him take on some of the more heavy things but cleaning is something I won't give up. ESP because he does a half ass job. 😒 okay. Rant over.